I messed up my life and how I resolved it myself

How I messed up my life

Life is messed up for those who allow it to be.

I was the good silent guy in the class who rarely spoke and never break class rules. I never get in trouble and have been always avoiding it.

Yet, I often find myself in the most messed up situations that I did not create.

Time and time again there are such situations putting me off balance and causing anxiety.

Some people call it negative energy that chooses the unguarded ones and create chaos. People with negative energy tend to get attracted to you and project their problems onto you.

I have a different perspective on the situation.

While I have experience in every available healing modality, hypnosis, and NLP, these things did not resolve until late where I had already worked with few thousand Meta-data sessions.

The issue showed up as a memory and it is time to resolve.

I am your transformational coach Sukhendu and with this read, I will walk you through the patterns of being messed up, to, being able to resolve things.

All you need to do, is decide to change. Rest work is mine.

Messed up life has links to early learning

How to fix a messed up life

It was in early school days I got in a messed up situation that I was just a by-passer. These two cousins use to sit by my side and a fine morning they were in a argument. As things continued for some rounds, I spoke something and they both turned the problem on to me.

What the Hell!

They both started blaming me and as soon the teacher entered the class, I was reported. Got slapped by the teacher and kneeled down for next half hour. They got a taste of this play and used this up to report to every teacher for next few months. Because the principal was now involved, the class teacher had to reach my home and talk to my parents.

She was holding my hand as I was walked home. As a kid, it was serious issue.

When my parents enquired, all I could say is 'I have no idea why I was being dragged in a problem they had among themselves.'

My parents were silent. Class teacher closed the chapter that day after months of harassment.

Whom to Blame

Me and my messed up life

Once a mess-up begins to play in life, it keeps doing so in different ways and other aspects. But the earliest memory might play the role of the meta-data.

The reasons with meta-data work and my current state of understanding my own behavior, I realized this experience has to do with lack of social skills and inability to take decisions. A further layer down, the reason such gap is created has links to uncertainty in parental reactions leaving a child always confused in making decisions.

These two are the most important programs that relate to my experience. As I analyse a dozen other such issues in later years, they match the meta-data.

As I worked through the corrections with Meta-data work I created a meditation session for others to work their issues out. Once you know your meta-data, you can correct it in self or in others.