Why you never get what you want? And how you can get everything from life

Life served Leftovers from others

Today there was a discussion if good people always end up as last option or get the leftovers from others, not in literal meaning of food.

This feeling has just stuck a deeper chord and it is time we dig deeper and find out the cause. This is what is called Meta-Data work in Transformational coaching: identifying the structure of your reality.

If it has ever happened to you that you are made to choose among things you do not like? There are people who always face it in life; material objects, partner, career options.

If life is so unfair?

Interesting fact that it happens to the nice people in life. But it has nothing to do with life being unfair. Everything is in the meta-data of the person.

When the links surfaced, it is found that people with such experiences has two identifiable traits. One, as a child they have always received second hand things (books, clothes, toys) from their elder siblings. This is the leftover trait meta-data.

The second one is, these people are passive in making choices. That means they are easy going with whatever comes in life and never actively pushes to what they desire.

How do you expect to get what you never asked for?!

Practical aspects in life do not work like law of attraction. You can get everything you want in life as long as you are ready to work for it with the right mindset, skills, and strategy.

Life is not a wishing machine

But what about the leftover issue? Is it possible to make changes that would affect this problem?

There is no magical way to correct this issue for a adult. One has to become aware of the pattern formed with personal choices.

Focus on your situation, feel your body, allow the space. As you remember, things shift. Use this healing meditation for assistance in this process.